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You Run in Those?! The sandal life

“You run in those?” Scott completing a half marathon in his “slippers.” “You hike in those?” Pilatus, Switzerland “You wear those in the snow?” At the Matterhorn Yes, yes and yes. When I met Scott he wore sandals for pretty much everything. The only time I saw him in boots was on the ski hill. … Continue reading You Run in Those?! The sandal life →

kholopainen essays about life 2 Comments June 23, 2024June 24, 2024 2 Minutes

Riding the Wheel

Seven years ago today, I was on my “trip of a lifetime,” my first solo overseas trip and (I thought) one last big adventure before settling down on my well planned path to a comfortable retirement. Kowloon harbour on a water taxi. Despite having no words in each other’s language besides “thanks!” We communicated quite … Continue reading Riding the Wheel →

kholopainen All the Feels, essays about life 2 Comments April 10, 2024April 10, 2024 1 Minute

Leaving Barbados

It was overwhelming at first, but now the sort moves smoothly. List on Marketplace. Pack for BC. Give to charity. Leave for next tenant. Paddle boards back to Mary. Give spices to Neil, so he can practice after the cooking lesson I gave him last week. Drop off memory foam, coffee grinder and drying rack … Continue reading Leaving Barbados →

kholopainen All the Feels, Barbados 3 Comments March 23, 2024March 28, 2024 2 Minutes

Keep on Dancing

I didn’t have a dance party on my 60th birthday. That had been the plan. Crosbie, whose standing joke was that I was his older friend (by one month!) was all for a joint party. We knew where (Moose Hall) although we hadn’t decided between the local band that did covers of 70s and 80s … Continue reading Keep on Dancing →

kholopainen All the Feels 1 Comment December 19, 2023December 1, 2024 3 Minutes

Do You Still Ski?

I stand at the top of the Saddle, looking at the black diamond on the post by the drop off. I take a deep breath. “Ok. Let’s do this.” And over the edge I go. So that makes it sound like I’m a good skier. I used to be. On this trip to Whistler, however, … Continue reading Do You Still Ski? →

kholopainen All the Feels 1 Comment January 24, 2023December 3, 2024 3 Minutes

Beautiful Barbados Broad

“Scott! Look at this! It was made in Barbados!” I’m holding up a leotard/unitard/one piece shorty exercise outfit. Exuberant tropical flowers, red, orange, pink, are splashed large across a white background. What’s surprising is not so much that it was made in the country we now live in, but that I’d bought it 25 years … Continue reading Beautiful Barbados Broad →

kholopainen All the Feels 4 Comments November 8, 2022November 27, 2023 2 Minutes

The Silence of the North

I find myself being still. At first I was jittery. When I was not in the lounges on the ship, being social, when I was in my room, I would shuffle through the papers on my desk. Should I write in my trip journal? No, that was all caught up. Could I play a game … Continue reading The Silence of the North →

kholopainen travel Leave a comment August 24, 2022November 27, 2023 2 Minutes

Abandoned Places

There is still paint on the wall behind the inside stairs, and carpet or oilcloth on some of the stairs. The colours are faded, but their presence is the echo of this once being a joyful place. Very little left in this house The windows and doors, the electric fixtures and wiring are gone, scavenged, … Continue reading Abandoned Places →

kholopainen All the Feels, travel Leave a comment August 2, 2022November 27, 2023 3 Minutes

Surrounded by My History

We drive over the Malahat. They have added bright orange posts between the north and south bound lanes of this coastal mountain highway, to prevent turns on and off it in dangerous places. As we come to each of these, I remember the fatal accidents: here, two motorcyclists; there, three members of a family in … Continue reading Surrounded by My History →

kholopainen All the Feels Leave a comment July 20, 2022November 27, 2023 2 Minutes

Coming Back to Barbados?

We took our friend Richard to the airport. We’ve been neighbours for a year and a half; we’ve shared a rental car for a year. We would walk into each other’s houses after yelling a token “knock knock!” would see each other almost daily on the water, surfing, and would get together for drinks and … Continue reading Coming Back to Barbados? →

kholopainen All the Feels 5 Comments June 10, 2022March 27, 2024 3 Minutes

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